Are you interested in
tantra but don't know where to start? Tantric massages can help you eroticize
your sex life and discover new pleasures as a couple. Find out what tantra
massages are for, how they work and their benefits.
What
is the meaning of tantrism?
The term tantrism
brings together a set of dogmas, rituals, texts and practices focused on
spirituality, which have strongly influenced the Hindu and Buddhist religions. This
current of thought considers that sexuality can lead to a form of ecstasy, both
physical and spiritual. Sex is seen as a sacred thing, which can lead to a
transcendent state.
To achieve this, it is necessary to have recourse to sexual
practices and rites, of which tantric massages (or tantra) are part. These
practices of sacred sexuality guide individuals towards a powerful sensory
experience, where the physical body mixes with the psychic to become one. Thus,
with Tantrism, the body becomes erotic and becomes the support of orgasmic
sensations. Like meditation, this form of sacred sexuality is seen as a deep
personal experience, accessible to all through inner work.
What
is a tantra massage?
Whether in global
perspectives or the context of Singapore, tantric massages can be one of the
ways to integrate Tantrism into its couple in a simple and progressive way
through the massage techniques. They can awaken the senses and awaken new or
unexplored sensations.
Tantric massage is a sensual and passionate exchange
between the two partners, which is practiced only in an intimate setting (and
not in a salon for example, because of its assumed sexual nature). It is
practiced with close body touches, using massage oil. There are no techniques
or movements to speak of: a tantric massage will be felt more in its intention
and in the erotic intensity of the gestures. Finally, the idea is to stimulate the
whole body in different ways, using slow and subtle gestures.
The
implementation of a tantra massage
Tantric massage
requires a minimum of preparation, especially regarding the setting in which it
will take place. Firstly, it is important to install yourself in a clean, tidy,
space-saving room. Nothing should disturb the sensual atmosphere and the carnal
atmosphere of the moment. You can possibly create an atmosphere by lighting
candles, dimming the lights or by burning incense or essential oils.
The idea
is that the person who is going to be massaged is as comfortable and relaxed as
possible. Comfortably install it on a bed, sofa or mattress with cushions. It
is best to provide a massage oil (such as vegetable oil) to make sliding
movements more pleasant. Finally, tantric massage is done with minimal to no
clothing, so remember to heat the room enough so that you or your partner are
not cold. You have to be as relaxed as possible, and a warm atmosphere is more
conducive to relaxation.
There are no precise
movements for the course of a tantra massage. Tantric massage is part of a
global way of thinking, it may not impose massage practices or specific rules.
There are a few things to take into account, such as the fact that the whole
body needs to be stimulated, not just the back, for example.
Each part of the
body must be seen as an erogenous zone and must be considered and affected.
Similarly, the more intense and varied the movements (strong, slow, then
lighter at times), the stronger the exchange between the two partners. The
tantra massage remains a massage above all imbued with love, tenderness and
passion. It should not be done just for the purpose of arousing his or her
partner. It must be seen as a passionate exchange which combines eroticism,
spirituality and pleasure of the senses.
Tantra massage allows
you to focus on your sexual energy and awaken your senses. In a couple, it can
help strengthen the passion and the bond that unites you by discovering other
forms of bodily and carnal pleasure for two. Likewise, thanks to its spiritual
dimension, tantra allows us to consider the relationship to the body in another
way and to associate physical pleasure with mental awakening. If you want to
evolve in your relationship and experience new things in your relationship with
sex, tantra can allow you to approach your sexuality differently. Finally, as
with "classic" massages, tantra massages make it possible to relax
the person receiving it and to relax their whole body.
